Each and every one of us carry a hammer of which can be used to build up or if you use the opposite of the hammer, you can tear down by means of criticism. I have to admit, I am no longer a young man anymore, however, I can say with empirical experience that most use the positive side of the hammer. It is used to build business reciprocity, in family relations and building “true” friendships. this is the human experience that is nailed down by the quality of altruism. So, the question, how do you handle someone that tends to see everyone through the prism of criticism? The key to dealing with overly critical people is first of all, to understand that we are the sum total of every moment of our experiences. most experts agree that the ages of 2-6 individual personality have been firmly established. Unfortunately, some have grown up in a home environment of constant criticism, by parents or others. The end result, this negative trait is projected during their life that validates their own insecurities and reaffirms the negative perception they have of themselves. They are threatened by the success of others, they lack confidence, and tend to compensate by counterattacking. Can they change? Absolutely! Their first step is “awareness.”
In the meantime, we would never want to retaliate when criticized, but instead, we want to be patient, understanding, commiserate, show empathy and compassion for such individuals.
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